Yeah...drawback wasn't the right word, but...I also couldn't find a 'right' one because blockage wasn't it, either. I'm also nonhuman ind English is weird for me some days. (Weird fir me some days-Ah, elven dialects...)

I don't know-but what I do know is our matriarch is a shaman and we're here...tools-supports-family, and it's...interesting.

But I at least have a starting point-and I'm still not sure how to talk to the other two about balancing acts because baby and other things-but this definitely gives me the hope I need to keep at it-if even just for my own self-actualization and...self-estem/benefits to me+them,, so thank you.

-Fallon~