I'm so sorry things are being more complicated and painful than expected on the surgery front. Not talking to your mother is, indeed, a boundary issue. Also, the reason Eros knew Psyche peeked is she dripped hot wax on his chest, causing pain, so the imagery may be more literal than metaphorical.

Perhaps the message is meant to reassure you that it's OK to not talk with your mother about this, as well as to be kind to yourself as you heal. Make sure the doctors are OK with you returning to work, and ready to give you the necessary medical excuses if you aren't able to safely do so.